Through The Tulips Words of 'Wiz'dom

May 11, 2009

On Paying Attention

Filed under: Life — gardener @ 9:45 am

“Those who make the worst use of their time are the first to complain of its shortness.” – Jean de la Bruyere

Lately, I’ve been the first to complain about not having enough time in my day to accomplish all that I want to do, and in fact, you may have heard me write about it here or on one of my other spaces, or even heard me talk about it in person.    It has seemed like I’ll check one or two things off my ‘to do’ list, only to find five or six more in their place, leaving me with the feeling that I’m spinning my wheels, or sometimes even trudging backwards against the current.

Today was no different- I was up early and out the door headed to the doctor, and while I did get a few things accomplished in terms of errands- we didn’t get home until late, which meant I had time for cooking and not much else.  

After dinner and dishes, Marcel headed for a little nap, and I’m pounding out a few words before Desere arrives for me to help her with  a Excel document.  Five more hours and I’ll kiss another day goodbye. 

As if on cue, when I opened my email a little earlier, I found the aforementioned quotation, along with the following words of  ‘wiz’dom.   It’s obviously time I became more focused in ‘everything’ I do, and not just ‘some’ of what I do. 

I’m going to see if it makes a difference, although I don’t see how it couldn’t.

Are you paying attention to how your time is spent?

Days don’t get shorter. Our attention spans do. How can summer be over in a blink while it seems like the weekend will never get here? Because we’re not paying attention. Five days out of seven, we’re waiting for something else to happen in the future, and we don’t take advantage of the day that we hold in our pocket. Have you ever had someone ask what you did last week–or even yesterday–and had trouble coming up with an answer? You probably wouldn’t have had any problem at all if your time were spent on something meaningful for you. Don’t wait for tomorrow! Ignore the calendar and work with one day at a time. Fill that one day with stuff you’ll pay attention to, the stuff that memories are made of. A little bit of focus will help you get rid of that hectic blur.

 

My Gratitude List for May 11, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful for:

  • A day of sunshine- a wonderful treat, after the weatherman predicted rain.
  • Finding the flower continers that I’d been looking all over town for and unable to find.
  • The doc having a suggestion of what hopefully will help the problem with my knee.
  • Have a fridge full of good, healthy things to eat.
  • Being loved.

May 8, 2009

Babies, Babies, Everywhere

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 9:28 am

After my friend Bobbi left, I checked emails to find a message from someone who is almost like a sister to me. She wanted to ask me to be praying for them, as they found out recently they are pregnant. I’m SO excited for her and her family. That makes three people that are near and dear to my heart, that are pregnant at this very moment. I’m SO excited for them all.

My mom and sister-in-law asked me last week if Marcel and I were still trying to have a baby, and I told her that even though we would both love to have a child, that I felt we were getting too old to actually carry a child. Don’t yell and scream at me- I know, I know people do it all the time these days, but I personally feel that for ME, that I’m not sure I’d want to bear a child at almost 42. I would love to be a mother though, and adoption is something that we’ve been considering, but still needs more research.

I would love to have a child, and I think I would be an OK mom, but I’ve never been one to think that if I don’t have a child, that my life is not complete. I’m not sure why I have never had that feeling, but I’ve also never had that – ‘the biological clock is ticking’ feeling. I AM a firm believer that what should happen, will.

In the meantime- I’m thrilled that three people that I know and love are expecting a little bundle of joy. I’m going to be a great auntie 🙂

My Gratitude List for May 8, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Great news from ‘home’.
  • Delicious, Zero fat – Greek Yogurt
  • Paperchase Products, which I love.
  • My fluffy dotted pj’s that I’ve kept on all day.
  • Soup days, which means no cooking.

May 7, 2009

Life Begins at ’40’

Filed under: Life — gardener @ 8:20 am

Y’all may remember me mentioning a while back that my parents are throwing my darling brother a 40th birthday bash later this month.   The theme of his party is… “Life begins at 40”, and even though Marcel and I won’t be able to be there- I’ve been doing the best that I can to help make this party a huge success.

Mom left the invitations up to me, and I was able to design invitations that I thought my brother would get a huge kick out of-   Earlier last week, mom sent out the invites, and sure enough, I received an email from my little bro letting me know how much he loved the invitations.

He probably thinks that the fun stops there. … ahhh he should know me much better than that-   Several days ago, I ordered a banner for mom to hang, and either later on today or tomorrow, I have plans to design a ‘special birthday T-Shirt’ that mom is going to insist that he wears.    It’s going to be this hilarious photo that I have of him in the center- with various color types and fonts with the number 40 all around.   He’s going to love it-

Mom has a few tricks up her sleeve as well, and this weekend I plan on writing a list of  ’40 things’  about my brother, that mom can read aloud to him at the bash.  I want them to be funny, so I’ve got to get the creative juices flowing.

I really wish we were going to be there, but we’ll definitely be there in spirit.

If I can get permission from my bro- I will share a few photos with y’all after the fact.  

Right now, I hear a rumbling in my tummy, which tells me it’s DINNER TIME!

My Gratitude List for May 7, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Being able to find the exact plant that my mom-in-law mentioned the other day- to give to her for Mother’s Day.
  • That in spite of the dark clouds- the rains have subsided.
  • A piece of sunshine in the mail- a letter from my friend Caroline.
  • Unexpected blessings.
  • An email from one of my favorite people with ultrasound photos, and photos of her expecting.  She’s almost 7 months.  I’m so excited. 
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