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June 24, 2009

Grateful

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 11:54 am

I’ve spent the day doing exactly what I wanted to do- and that was catching up on emails, tv shows that I’d DVR’d and not had the opportunity to watch, plus writing a few letters, the old fashioned way.

It has been a gorgeous day, and in spite of making plans to lounge in the hammock with a book, I didn’t manage to get that far, but tomorrow is another day.  It has been a good day, and I’m grateful for having the chance to not have anything on schedule and enjoying a day at home.

I leave you today with this-   Take the time to be grateful for ALL the great things you have in your life, not being sad for the things you don’t have.

June 17, 2009

Little Things

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 11:25 am

Little things excite me. Some people think it’s silly, but I can’t help it. Sometimes some of the tiniest gestures make my day. Today has been one of those days when many small things have made for a great day.

I’ll give you an example.

We met with some friends who are in town visiting family for lunch. I had a Greek Salad, which was fantastic, but it was chocked full of purple onions, one of the few onions that I’ll actually eat raw. Afterwards, it left me with some serious ‘onion breath’, and no one had gum or peppermint. As we were walking along from store to store after lunch, I figured I’d stop in somewhere and pick me up a pack of gum or something- anything to get rid of the dreaded ‘onion breath’, but while I was picking up a birthday gift for Marcel’s neice, Desere came inside the store and handed me a peppermint. I’d told her I wanted to get something, and while I was doing that, she picked some up.. Wheww! bad breath averted.

It’s tiny- I know- but it made me smile, and it was something she didn’t have to do, but she did anyway, and it meant a great deal to me- so THANKS Desere 🙂

Another thing- Tonia had two individual servings of hazelnut coffee cream that she gave me when she heard that I liked it. You can’t find it here, and she’d bought a box to bring with her ‘just in case’, and she’d been carrying those in her purse. Granted- it’s only two little servings of flavored coffee cream, but when you love it and can’t get it- it’s something to make a girl smile- or at least this one.

See what I mean? Those little things bring a smile to my face, lift my spirits and make me SMILE!

What about you? What little things have happened today to bring a smile to YOUR face?

My Gratitude List for June 17, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The peppermints that Desere bought to get rid of my ‘onion breath’.
  • Two individual servings of Hazelnut coffee cream from Tonia.
  • The Greek salad I ate today for lunch.  Deeelisssh.
  • Marcel helping me water all the plants.
  • Finding out that we can pick up the car on Tuesday.

June 14, 2009

Counting Down

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 6:48 am

It’s hard for me to believe that the days are flying by at the rate of speed that they are, and that tomorrow is the 15th of the month of JUNE.  JUNE!   Where have the days gone?   I know this isn’t the first time that I’ve mentioned how fast the time seems to be flying, and trust me- it probably won’t be the last. 

Over the next few months, I have so much to look forward to.  Granted- I look forward to each and every day, as it always brings something new, and usually something unexpected.  I also usually learn something each and every day, useful tidbits of information that I can pack in my suitcase of knowledge and carry with me on this continued journey called life.

Marcel and I are still undecided about a vacation this year.  We have a few ideas, but with the new car and other expenses, I’m just not sure we want to fork out the cash- but we’ll see what happens as the days and weeks unfold.

In less than three weeks one of my oldest, and dearest friends will arrive for 11 days of fun!  I’ve already begun the countdown and been planning things that we can do on her arrival day, and the subsequent days that follow.   She’ll turn 40 while she’s here, and I’ll turn 42.  It will be great to celebrate my birthday with someone from home for a change, and we plan to do it in style, with lots of photographs to follow.

Next Sunday, I have the opportunity to meet up with someone I went to high school with.  He and a team of five others are flying to Rwanda on a missionary trip and have an almost 12 hour layover here in Neverland.   I’ve offered to spend most of the day with them, show them around, and give them a little feel of the city.  It will be fun, plus I’m really excited about seeing Chris again after more than 20 years.  

There is also the possiblity of meeting up with another friend that I know from online in October, because she may also have a layover here.  She’s a wonderful person, and I hope we’ll have the opportunity to finally meet after all these years of knowing each other online. 

Also in October, a friend of my brothers is going to be in the area.  He and his wife are possibly going to add A’dam to their list of travels, and if they d0, Marcel and I will spend some time showing them around, plus getting to know them.  I’m looking forward to it, and hope that the opportunity presents itself.   I’m always excited when I get to spend time with people from home.

Right now, I’m going to pour myself a cup of java- head outside and spend some time in the sunshine.   I need to vacuum, and I may do that before I go, but the rest of the day is mine- and I plan to enjoy every second of it.

My Gratitude List for June 14, 2009

Today I’m Grateful for:

  • My dear friend Maggie, who is celebrating her birthday today.
  • All the little things in life worth celebrating.
  • Factory rebates on both my camera AND Marcel’s TomTom. Yeah!!
  • Finally getting my updated budget done, which has been on my ‘to do’ list for a long time..
  • Downward movement of the scale.

June 12, 2009

So Much- So Little Time

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 11:28 am

I have so much to tell, but so little time the last few days. Wonderful things have been happening to people that I love- with my parents celebrating their 44th anniversary yesterday, to my friends Maggie and Kimmie celebrating their birthday’s tomorrow. It’s times like these- those wonderful celebration moments, that I wish I could zap myself from one place to another, to share in these special moments with these people who mean such a great deal to me.

I have also been splurging a little the past couple of days- buying a ‘fold-up’ hammock for myself, a new camera, and a Tom-Tom Navigation system for Marcel. I figured since he has the car, he needs to make sure he doesn’t get lost along the way.

I hope to have more time this weekend to spend on the computer, but right now, my coffee awaits.

My Gratitude List for June 12, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Sleeping late, and the cut in my mouth finally healing a little.
  • My new camera, which takes awesome photos- and will be great to carry with me everywhere I go.
  • Friendship.
  • Birthday’s and anniversaries of people I love.
  • Ice Cold Green Tea.

June 8, 2009

Visits and Visitors

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 2:58 pm

I’m home alone this evening- the second of two while Marcel is off working.  I had big plans of how I was going to spend my time, but somewhere I lost track and two hours have passed and I’m not sure where they went.  

Well, I shouldn’t say that I’m not sure where they went, because I’ve been trying to play ‘catch-up’  because I haven’t spent that much time online lately, and while I’ve made some progress, I’m still not fully caught up with emails- but there’s tomorrow.  

 I did make tenative plans to meet up with an old friend from High School who will be in the area for a layover while headed with a group of six for a missions trip.  I’m excited about meeting up with them and showing them around a little.  I’ll find out more details later this week.

I also made plans to meet up with my friend Vivi who lives several hours away.  We’ve been talking about getting together for a while, but our schedules haven’t allowed- but we’ve finally been able to work something out.  I’m looking forward to it.  Even though we’ve only met once,  I really like her and I know we’ll have a blast.  

Since I’m talking about travels- and friends-  I’m on the countdown until Samantha arrives for her trip.  Just a little over three weeks and she’ll be headed this way. I can’t wait!!   I’ve been planning and plotting, and I hope to make this trip not only special but memorable for her.  I love visitors from home!!

Since it’s getting late, I guess I should drink a glass of milk and go curl up on the couch and watch a little television.  That shouldn’t take long to lull me into sleep.  

Tomorrow, I’ve promised to make some of Marcel’s favorites for dinner.   Homemade fried chicken breast strips, italian seasoned breaded zucchini, and potatoes.   I know- it isn’t exactly what I’d call ‘healthy’  but he’s been asking for a while, and I decided that tomorrow I’d make it for him.  The moment I told him, his face lit up with excitement- and that makes it all worth the effort of cooking two meals.    I’ll stick to baked chicken with fresh zucchini, mushrooms, peppers and grape tomatoes.  YUM!

My Gratitude List for June 8, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Making plans to spend the day with my friend Vivi.
  • Notes on menapause from my friend Maggie. (Thank you!)
  • Sleeping late this morning, and Marcel getting enough rest after working all night.
  • One of my favorite shows starting a new season next week!
  • The circus coming to town-  I’m going visit the animals!

June 6, 2009

On Being True to Yourself.

Filed under: Gratitude,Quotes- Soul Food — gardener @ 12:02 pm

To be nobody but yourself–in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else– means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.

– EE Cummings, poet

I thought that while Marcel was watching soccer, that I’d turn MY computer on for the first time in days to check mail and watch last seasons Survivor that I have sitting here waiting for a rainy day. It isn’t exactly a rainy day, but he’s watching the game, so I figured now is a good of time as any.

I came across the above quotation while reading through my emails, and it really resonated with me on many different levels. It’s something I’ve been seeing alot lately- people trying to put me in the box that they want me to be in, but those who know me well know that I don’t conform well to being put in any sort of box.

I recently found myself in a position where someone else, who was thinking a particular way, about a particular subject, kept projecting these feelings and telling me that THIS was how it was. In reality that was how SHE saw it, but clearly I knew that it was NOT the case in my eyes.. It didn’t make it untrue, but it was not my reality. Eventually, this person persisted with this particular projection until I started questioning myself, and struggling.

This wasn’t from someone who was trying to manipulate or hurt me, but yet someone who saw something completely different than I did, and I allowed their opinion to cause doubt and make me question myself.

Eventually, I had to take a long hard look in the mirror, and with a little encouragement realized that we are all different and don’t see things through the same glasses. I knew that above all, I had to be true to myself, and the rest would fall into place. 

I believe we all need these little reminders from time to time.  I know I do.  After all, we’re only human.

My Gratitude List for June 6, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Marcel surprising me with a day out.
  • 4 1/2 pounds of the sweetest strawberries I’ve ever eaten for 4.00.
  • Finding the perfect pair of white sandals, for a great price.
  • A book filled with discount coupons for museums, which will be perfect for Samantha’s visit next month.
  • Finding my favorite Green Tea bags on sale, and stocking up!

June 4, 2009

Love, Love, Love

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 11:28 am

Even though I’ve been extremely busy as of late, the one thing that has been equally as busy is the gray matter. I’ve been doing alot of thinking (what else is new?), and the more problems I see arise in the world, the more hate, the more discontent, the more wars, the fighting, the INSANITY-

…..The more I’m convinced that the world needs more LOVE.  Not Hollywood, feel-good-ooey-gooey-unrealistic-love, but real, true love.

I don’t care who you are, we ALL need love.

My Gratitude List for June 4, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • People who notice, and by doing so inspire and encourage.
  • An afternoon spent shopping with Desere.
  • Unexpected blessings, both large and small.
  • Homemade chicken soup
  • New life- Sheila’s baby was born yesterday.

June 2, 2009

Busy Days

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 10:59 am

Another busy, but productive day.   Tomorrow, Marcel and I are going car shopping, but thankfully I’ll have some time in the a.m. to hopefully write, and catch up on a few things before heading out for the day.

The rest of the week should actually afford me some time online.   I know I’ve been absent, but the great weather wins out everytime.

My Gratitude List for June 2, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • The trip to the stylist, which resulted in a new ‘do’ and no-more-grey.
  • “Spa feet” morning with friends, which resulted in Happy Feet.
  • The headache I had earlier being gone.
  • Marcel helping me not only with dinner, but also with dishes.
  • Fresh strawberries.

May 26, 2009

Gratitude

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 10:07 am

Before I head to the kitchen to serve myself dinner-

My Gratitude List for May 26, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Last night’s storms not leaving us with any damage.
  • New perspectives.
  • The rains- which have lasted all day.
  • Fresh vegetables.
  • Conversations with people I love.

May 25, 2009

In My Abscence.

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 5:30 am

In my abscence, I’ve been taking some time to tend my own garden, so to speak.  My emotional garden- something I’ve needed to do for quite some time, and haven’t taken the time to do it.  

We really do have to take the time to ‘weed our gardens’, ridding ourselves of the negative and  not allowing it to grow and become a weed that has taken over the garden.    As with a real garden, if left untouched, the weeds will overpower and take over, robbing the beautiful flowers and plants of their nutrients and beauty.   The same applies to us.

Lately- I’ve found that I’ve lost my focus.  Technically, not lost my focus, but began focusing on the wrong things, which in turn, allowed those pesky weeds to take root and grow.   Thankfully, I was able to recognize this and am now working on getting back to the place where I need to be.    As with all weeding- it takes a little time, but the result is breathtaking.

I smell the coffee coming from the kitchen, a reminder that the brewing process is finished, and it’s time for me to head to the kitchen, and ultimately outside with a book in one hand, a steaming cup of coffee in the other.

My Gratitude List for May 25, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Weeding the garden, and feeling much stronger, and peaceful.
  • An afternoon to spend exactly as I please.
  • All of lifes little blessings.
  • The few who reached out- who cared enough to notice.
  • Almonds, which could be one of my favorite nuts.
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