Through The Tulips Words of 'Wiz'dom

April 9, 2009

On Changes

Filed under: Inspiration — gardener @ 11:27 am

Often I hear people talk about how they are miserable about something in their life.   Truth is, there have been times when I have been exactly the same.   There were things happening in my life that I wasn’t happy about, but rather than actually taking the action to make the necessary changes, I would ‘talk’  about how miserable I was, becoming entrapped in the cycle of misery, and denial.  

To some, it’s easier to be miserable and to live in a situation that clearly isn’t working, than to make the actual effort to change.   After all, you’ve been miserable for so long, you’ve kind of gotten use to it haven’t you? 

For years, I did the same thing-  I complained about being over weight, and wanting to lose weight, all while shoveling thousands of calories of garbage down my throat, and washing it down with liter after liter of Mountain Dew.  

Truth was, I didn’t WANT to be overweight (after all who does?), but I also wasn’t prepared to stop talking and start DOING. 

At least until last year, when I finally decided enough was enough and started making changes for ME.   It wasn’t just about saying no to fast food and junk, and replacing it with fresh fruits, vegetables and lean proteins.  It also wasn’t JUST about getting out and actually moving and adding cardio to my lifestyle, but it was an entirely different change of mindset, which occurs when we are ready to own our choices and make a change.

I am far from perfect.  I stumble, and some days I fall, but to quote something someone said to my nephew last weekend-  “You can give out, but NEVER give UP.”    and I don’t. 

Change is possible in all aspects of our lives.  If you have something that is no longer working in your life, make the change.  Stop waiting for someone to wave a magic wand and ‘fix’ it all, because the only cure to your problems is YOU.

Own all of your choices

The choices you make today will determine the path that your life will take. When you sit back and look at the decisions you’ve made in your life, are you happy with the route you’ve paved? If you’re not, make a change today. The next time you make a choice, ask yourself if this decision will lead you to the path you want to travel along. Set some new goals that will lead you to your dreams and then plan your course.

“Our lives are a sum total of the choices we have made”  – Wayne Dyer

 

April 8, 2009

Life Begins at 40

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 2:43 pm

For someone who was actually dreading turning the big 4-0 almost two years ago, I can attest to the fact that life really does begin at 40.  

That title is also the theme to the birthday bash that mom and diddy are throwing for my amazing brother, who will turn the big 4-0 himself in less than two months.

Since we’re here, and the party is there, Marcel and I won’t be able to make it, but you can be certain that we’ll be there in spirit, and even though I’m not going to be there, I’m doing what I can from here to help with the party preps, such as designing and ordering the invitations for mom-  something I actually need to work on this week, so I can get her seal of approval and send in the order.  

I also have several ideas up my sleeve to surprise my bro on his special day, surprises that will have to be carried out by mom and/or diddy, but I know they’ll do anything for me, their favorite daughter.  *smile*

Life really does begin at 40, in more ways than one.

My Gratitude List for April 8, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Finally finding a new tablecloth for Sunday’s Easter brunch.
  • Marcel vacuuming for me today, while I took care of a few other things in house.
  • Leftovers, which meant I didn’t have to cook today.
  • “Home alone” time tonight.
  • Those who ‘get it right’.

Splashes of Color

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 8:03 am

I realized a little earlier that I never have taken the time to write a little about each of my new sites, so that you can have an idea as to what each represents, although not exclusively.

I will have to try to get that done before sometime next week, plus, I was reminded recently about the Circle Journey book, which traveled around the world. I had completely forgotten about it, and the fact that I was suppose to send copies to everyone who participated that wanted a copy, so I’m going to share photos here, and see about getting copies out to everyone who still wants them. That’s so very unlike me, but it did happen, so all I can say is- I’m sorry.

In the meantime, I need to get busy in the kitchen, but I wanted to share a little something that I took last week, and since this place is called ‘Through the Tulips’, I thought it may be appropriate.

I also leave you with the question:  What’s YOUR favorite color tulip, or flower?

Tulips

Travel Destination Impasse

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 1:50 am

Oh, one thing before I go… Marcel and I have been discussing vacations, and while I’m really wanting to go to the Azores in September, a friend of his was telling him about Orlando vacations, and now he’s having the itch to go to Orlando.

If you know me, you know that I love and adore Orlando, but something tells me there is no comparison to the Azores. Looks like we are going to have to find a compromise somewhere.

Goofing..

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 1:47 am

I’ve been goofing off this morning, and since I am debating on whether to go to the next town over to the Wednesday market, AND because I haven’t eaten, I guess I should actually get a move on with things.

Easter Brunch is planned, and I’ll be sharing the menu a little later on in Simply Wizardres.

Right now, time to eat, get a work out in, a bath and decide where the day will take us.

Spring Favorites

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 12:42 am

Every year when spring rolls around, Marcel and I always buy season passes for a local garden that has the most beautiful and amazing flowers.   Personally, I wish it was open year round, but it’s only for two months out of the year. 

Last week when we went for the first time, they didn’t have our membership card when we arrived to pick them up. They were out, but told us that our receipt would work for entrance if we came back before we received the cards.

I actually expected it to take several weeks, but surprisingly, we had them within a few days. I ‘really’ want to go back, but the weather isn’t cooperating so far. Maybe later in the week, at least I hope.

I’ll have to share some of the photos I took while we were there. The place is truely amazing.

April 7, 2009

My New Toy

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 10:55 am

I’m not sure if I’ve written about it here yet or not, but I know I did at Simplywizardress.com, but last week I finally  got my new iPhone.   I have been waiting and waiting, until the time drew close enough for me to be able to cancel my current contract, so that I could keep my number, even though switching to a different provider with the iPhone. 

I love ‘gagets’ and anything else that will challenge my brain, but surprisingly, in spite of having NO user manual or instructions, the iPhone is simple to use.   I believe even the most computer challenged person of all times could probably breeze through the iPhone, but then again, maybe it’s just that I love this kind of stuff.

I’ve been checking out applications, downloading a few, deleting a few others, and by far the one I’ve found to be the absolute best is this application called “Lose It”.  It allows me to track my work outs, plus log my food, all from my phone.   Not to mention it tells me how many more calories I should intake for the rest of the day to lose the 2 pounds I’d like to lose. (It can also be set for lower weight losses per week, and will adjust food needs accordingly).

After two days of using the program, I’m hooked.   I am SO glad that I made this decision.  This is my favorite phone -ever!

Since I’d like to read a few of my favorite blogs before I need to wake Marcel from his nap, I leave you with:

My Gratitude List for April 7, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful for:

  • Marcel doing the dishes for me this evening.
  • The “Lose It” application for my iPhone.
  • Finally having my menu together for Sunday’s Easter Brunch.
  • Getting my work out in, in spite of having a sore knee.
  • Surprises.

April 6, 2009

Gratitude

Filed under: Gratitude — gardener @ 1:56 pm

I believe that it’s easy to be grateful when things in life are going along as planned- when everything is going just the way you’d like it, and it seems like all is golden in your world.

I believe that when we are faced with adversity, with heartache and pain, trials and tribulations, that taking the time out to be grateful becomes more difficult, but yet I believe, that those are the times when we should be the most grateful.

Today, in spite of how I’ve felt, I’ve been surrounded with many things to be grateful for- Below you can find just a few.

My Gratitude List for April 6, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Angels who walk amongst us each and every day, disguised as ordinary people, but who are anything but.
  • Little things that bring a smile to my face.
  • Finishing my work out, when I didn’t think that I could today.
  • Friendship.
  • Encouragement, love and support.

These Boots Are Made For Walkin’

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 9:37 am

Not long ago, I finished my work out. I actually got it in much later than I’d anticipated, and almost didn’t do it at all, but I decided to do it anyway. Half way through, I wanted to quit. I just couldn’t seem to get my body moving enough, it felt as though it was taking every bit of energy I had to go through the motions of the work out. It was crazy. Yet, I pushed through, because I knew I needed to and in the end, I was happy that I did.

After the glass of milk that I drink after each work out (for the protein), I drank a liter of water, and then settled in to a huge mug of coffee. I heard my phone scream, “WOO HOO, Somebody’s, done set me a text message.” so I went to see who it was from. It was Desere, wanting to know if I wanted to go walking. I asked when, and she followed it with a message to let me know that we’d be going in about a half hour.

I responded that I’d be happy to go. That I hadn’t eaten, but that it would come when we got back, and it will. I’ll get everything ready before I go, so all I’ll need to do is stuff the food in the oven when I get back and let it cook.

I’m happy for the exercise, and the distraction. Thank GOD for friends, regardless of where they may be in the world- they are truely one of the biggest blessings ever!

Processing

Filed under: Uncategorized — gardener @ 6:58 am

I’ve found a little comfort in the silence today. I know that may sound odd, but it has given me a chance to attempt to process things that I’ll never understand, and attempt to move forward. Even though it may seem to at times, life doesn’t stand still for anyone, or anything.

In a moment, I’ll put on my work-out clothes and see if I can’t burn off a little steam that way. Marcel also mentioned the other day that he’d like a navigation system, one that isn’t actually part of the software of his cell phone, which is what he currently has. I’m going to see if I can’t find one on sale and surprise him with it maybe for Easter, or sometime soon. He’s been such a source of strength and encouragement for me, and deserves it.

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