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August 29, 2009

Remembering Katrina- 4 Years Later

Filed under: In the Neighborhood,Life,Sands of Time — gardener @ 11:56 am

I don’t think I’ll ever forget when I heard on the news that Hurricane Katrina was expected to make landfall in New Orleans. Anyone from the Coastal area knew that a Category 3 hurricane had the potential to wipe out New Orleans if the levy’s broke, but here was Katrina, the monster storm headed towards New Orleans, almost assuring that the New Orleans that so many knew and loved would be no more.

Sometime or another before making landfall, Katrina turned, with the Mississippi Gulf Coast as her landfall target. As she made landfall, she literally obliverated the Mississippi Gulf Coast, taking almost everything in her path with her, including many historical homes that had survived during the devastating 1969 storm, Hurricane Camille.

By this time, I no longer lived on the Gulf Coast, but I watched Fox News and cried as I heard stories about the Coast that I know and love being ‘wiped out’, and the levys breaking in New Orleans, flooding part of the French Quarter and the lower 9th ward. Even though I grew up a short 15 minute ride from the beach, my parents moved inland after we graduated high school, and now live close to an hour from the beach I spent so much time at growing up.

I had limted cell phone contact with my parents, but enough to know that they, along with my brother and his family had made it through the storm without any damage, but the same wasn’t true for so many others. So many had lost everything, and I do mean everything, walking away with the clothes on their backs and llittle more.

Anyone who was on the Coast during the time has a Katrina story. I have videos, and I have a book, neither of which I’ve ever been able to watch or look at in their entirety because I just can’t stand to see that much dispair, devastation and pain. I’ve heard stories, many stories from family and friends, of how they made it through the storm, and the stories never cease to amaze me at the power of the human spirit.

It wasn’t until a year later that I actually visited the coast with Marcel, and I remember driving down Highway 90 and realizing that the news reports and the articles had been nothing compared to what I was seeing at that moment, and it was a year later. I couldn’t and still can’t wrap my head around the days after the storm, and what the people of the Gulf Coast and of New Orleans had to endure. I do know for certain that what we saw on the news, doesn’t even come close to showing us the real story.

Katrina did show us the power of the human spirit, as people the world over came to the aid of those in need. Even as I type this and the tears are streaming down my face, I know that in spite of the evil in the world, that good always prevails, and hope is a powerful thing.

Many have been able to rebuild their lives when they were left with little more than hope, a sure sign that with hope anything is possible. Four years later, there are still those who are struggling to find their way, to rebuild their lives, but progress is being made. If you visit the Coast for the first time today, you may not notice much evidence that Katrina ever practically destroyed everything, but for those of us who have made the Coast or New Orleans our home- we know.

We may be moving forward, but we’ll never forget.

August 25, 2009

My Biggest Fan

Filed under: Inspiration,Life — gardener @ 12:02 pm

You may think that this entry is going to be about Marcel or one of my True Blues, but in fact this is about none other than Me, Myself, and I.   Over the  years I’ve learned that I can’t depend on other people to always be on the sidelines cheering for and supporting me, and that while their approval and encouragement is great, it isn’t necessary for my success, because I have learned to be my own biggest fan, cheering for me when I know I need a boost.

That doesn’t say that those who are there for me are any less important, because I value their love, friendship and support, but loving yourself and learning to give to yourself as well as giving to others, is important.

It’s a lesson I’m glad I learned.

August 24, 2009

Striking Balance

Filed under: Life — gardener @ 12:13 pm

This morning, after grocery shopping and in between work assignments, I had an email from my friend Bobbi that her morning plans had been canceled. Since I was in the process of putting away groceries at the time I saw her message, I decided to give her a call and see if she felt like popping over for a visit, since it had been what seemed like forever since I’d seen her, and I know she missed me. haha Actually, I missed her, and it was great to actually sit down with her and have a face-to-face chat as opposed to sending Facebook or email messages.

During her visit, I received email from two different contractors, with work for me to do. Once she left, I got busy with the assignments and completed the goal that I set for myself today with time to spare. One of my deadlines is in two days, and the other, which is a more complex assignment in some ways is due at the end of the week, with more work from both contractors upon completion of these projects.

What I did decide, is that I’m going to have to generate some sort of list so I can keep up with what I need and when I need it, so that I don’t get consumed in work and forget about everything else. After all, I am still searching to find that balance, and I do believe that the list will help in doing just that.

I don’t want to neglect my journals, and I also don’t want to neglect my interpersonal relationships, as my friends and family mean everything to me.

So tell me, how do you find balance in your life? Right now, I think I’m doing pretty well, but I still have a few things to scratch off my ‘to-do’ list before Marcel comes home from work in a half hour.

Guess that means I’d better get busy, and in the meantime, spill the beans. How do you find and keep balance in your life without losing sanity?

Knowledge is Power

Filed under: Life,Techy — gardener @ 12:06 pm

Those of you who have known me any amount of time know how much I love to learn, and one of my absolute favorite things about todays technology is that attending university has broadened the horizons of what attending school really is. Rather than sitting in a actual classroom at specific times, online universties are allowing students to complete their degrees in virtual classrooms, from the comfort of their own homes.

My friend Michelle and I were recently having a conversation about education. She had been considering her Masters at an organizational development university which offers her the benefits of fitting classes into her already busy schedule, allowing her to complete her Masters degree much faster than she would if attending a traditional university.

She’d been considering her Masters in Organizational development at Gonzaga University, and the site has proven invaluable with information regarding her chosen path, and feel that she would have more long term career options if she’d instead persue her Masters in Organizational Leadership. She appreciates the challenge that this online university brings, plus the diverseness of the students in the virtual classrooms which offer many different perspectives to the mix, and thinks it would be the best option for her educational persuits. After looking at the site myself, I can see she’s right, and finds me with the desire to once again go back to university and learn.

August 23, 2009

Cold Water

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 7:15 am

Well, I checked my bathwater and I was right- it’s cold. I’m adding a little more right now and am headed off for a swim in the tub, followed by catching up with emails, and thinking about what I’m going to be eating this evening for dinner. Once I get all that done- I’ll be ready to catch up with Survivor.

Whatever you find yourself doing today- Make sure you have fun!

My Gratitude List for August 23, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • Marcel for taking out the trash and mailing a letter for me.
  • A day of rest and catching up.
  • The smell of fall in the air.
  • OPI nail polish.
  • My new job.

Seasons

Filed under: Life,Shop til ya Drop — gardener @ 7:10 am

I’ve been thinking quite a bit about Autumn. Even though the temps are still somewhat warm, I have noticed a different type of ‘cool’ in the evening air. There is a crispness about it, that is the sign that Autumn is coming. I’ve noticed that boots have hit the store shelves, and I’ve been eying a really cute leather and plaid pair. Marcel told me to buy them, but I don’t know. I’m hesitant. I haven’t tried them on, because I know if they look cute, I’ll indulge. I’ve also been thinking about a pair of Danskos for walking. They look comfortable, and they would keep my feet warm when I’m out walking in the winter. Decisions, decisions.

What is your favorite thing about Autumn/Winter? I am definitely not a fan of the shorter daylight hours, but I do love the temps, soups, and the colors of Fall. I even like the nakedness of Winter. Every season has it’s own unique beauty.

Finding Balance

Filed under: Life — gardener @ 7:04 am

As I mentioned earlier in the week, life has taken a really busy turn for me, so my time to blog has diminished somewhat. Unfortunately with that also went the time that I have to read blogs, but never fear, once I find myself more in a routine, I am sure I can strike a balance and keep up with everything again. Plus before I know it, Autumn will be here, and that will mean more time inside, although as long as I can, I’m hoping to keep walking and/or bike riding until it gets too cold for either. I’m sure once I see the first patch of ice, the biking will be out the window, since the idea of being sprawled flat on my face after hitting a patch of ice isn’t very appealing, but the walking I plan to continue throughout the winter months.

One great thing about this new writing career I’ve embarked on, is the fact that while I eat regular meals, I am too busy to think about grabbing a little snack here and there, which means this job could possibly be better than any weight loss pills. Granted, I haven’t been taking any pills in the first place, aside from vitamins and fish oil, but the scales are inching downward. Now if I can get back into a consistent work out routine, life will be complete.

August 20, 2009

Quick Confession and Thanks

Filed under: Life,photography — gardener @ 2:12 pm

I’m so tired and ready to turn off the computer, but I wanted to pat myself on the back and spend a moment being grateful for meeting my deadline today and also to thank my dear mommy for believing in me when I started doubting myself. 

You were right mom, I could do it, and I did.  Even though it didn’t go as smoothly as I’d hoped, it did go faster than my biggest fears, and I know that it’s only going to get better. 

Love you.

Remember, it’s not about the destination, but the journey.

 

August 19, 2009

Life is Good…

Filed under: Gratitude,Life — gardener @ 11:51 am

So many wonderful things are happening in my life at the moment, that I’m bursting with gratitude for so many things- I have so much to write and share, but yet time doesn’t allow me to spend the time writing right now that I’d like. I’ve spent the better part of my day on the computer, emailing back and forth with project managers for several different projects which were in the works- all of which seem to have panned out, which is going to make for a very busy Lori.

I’m excited about it, but it’s going to mean me learning how to better utilize my time and goofing off playing Farkle on facebook isn’t going to be one of the options I have.

I’ll share more as time allows.

Tomorrow I have an appointment with my stylist- although how I’m going to fit that in with tomorrows activities is beyond me. I’ll figure it out though- after all they don’t call me “Wizzy” for nothing.

As for now- my bath water awaits- so I leave you with a gratitude list and lots of love.

My Gratitude list for August 19, 2009.

Today I’m Grateful For:

  • New opportunities and possiblities.
  • Having the opportunity to chat with my brother for a little while.
  • Opi nail polish
  • Finding Mister M’s secret hiding place. (more on that later)
  • Cool baths on a warm summer day.

August 18, 2009

Ramblings of the Day

Filed under: Life — gardener @ 8:23 am

The last two nights I’ve gone to bed LONG past what is my normal bed time. Aside from being totally caught up in last seasons Surivor, I also have some projects in the works, and if everything plays out the way that I’m praying it will, I’m going to be one busy girl, which I’m not only looking forward to, but I’m excited about.

Call me superstitious, but I don’t want to say too much at this point, until I know more, but aside from being a little nervous, I think it’s an awesome opportunity for me. I’m defintely grateful no matter what, because I know that this didn’t just ‘happen’- I had a thought, and within two days of that thought- this literally fell into my lap, and from there I’ve been scrambling, in hopes to make this happen. More on that at a later date.

Remember me writing about the OPI nail polish the other day? Well, it is now day four on my nails and they haven’t chipped yet. That is a record for my nails, and a sure sign that I’m going to be buying some new colors of OPI in the near future. I’m definitely impressed- considering the amount of dishes I wash, the amount of pounding I do on these keys, and they are holding strong.

As much as I’d love to stay and chat- looks like I’d better get dinner on the table, so we can eat and I can get in the bath before heading off to Marcel’s uncles for the evening. Ooh, and I don’t need to forget to DVR my favorite shows- one of which starts the new season tonight. That has always been one of my favorite things about this time of the year- all the new television programming.

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